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Steve Wickes's avatar

Everything is real but there are countless individual variations of reality. A successful, young, single investment banker living in New York experiences a very different reality from an old retiree from a rural area, living on a fixed income and taking care of an invalid family member. Having said that, there are big things that affect most members of a community although in different ways - hurricanes, wars, etc. I think it is challenging for most of us to "walk a mile in another person's shoes" in our everyday lives. I think it's even harder when traveling as we are drawn to the sanitized highlights of a destination. For instance, we typically visit the beaches in Rio, not the slums.

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Dru Jaeger's avatar

I'm increasingly comfortable with the fact I can only ever experience a place from my own perspective. And I'm not sure there's ever an idealised 'authentic' experience of anywhere. You mentioned about spending time in the woods, but you can never be in the woods as if you were a tree, so how authentic is your woodland experience? Likewise, I can never understand another culture as if I were rooted in it. But I think that's OK, and it doesn't make my limited experience any less real. It's more like an unfolding discovery, as I approach places and people with humility, acknowledging how little I know, and ready to observe, listen and learn.

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